I’m having an odd kind of conflict with myself right now – should I knit some of my coworkers small gifts?
Now, this isn’t an odd question to most knitters – many folks knit for friends and relatives and even casual acquaintances all the time. But not me. I am a Selfish Knitter. With a very few exceptions, I knit for myself. Period, end of sentence. My husband and my Mom get knitted things from me, and that’s about it. Once a long time ago, I knitted a sweater for my sister-in-law. And I will occasionally knit a baby thing if I really, really like at least one of the baby’s parents. Partially this is because quite a few of my loved ones live in Florida, where they do not need knitted things except when it plummets down into the 60’s. But mostly it’s because I just like knitting for myself.
I always appreciate the things I have made for me, they always (mostly) fit, and they are always the right color. I will never complain that I really wanted an Amazon gift card. I will never offer myself $20 to make an alpaca sweater. I will never throw them into the washer and drier, or use them to dust, or any of the other terrible thing non-knitters who do not understand the amount of work that goes into these objects will so often do.
I don’t knit for others to the point that when people ask if I’ll make them something, I just laugh uproariously like they just told a good one, even though I know in my heart they weren’t joking and really actually meant it.
So why suddenly consider it? Well, a couple reasons. First, I really do like the people I’m considering knitting for. They are pleasant ladies all, and have been pretty nice to me. Second, I think they would all appreciate the effort enough that I wouldn’t wind up sorry. Third, I’m thinking small – “a hat and mittens made with bulky weight yarn” small. Fourth, well, ’tis getting to be the season to be generous. Maybe I’ll give it a try and see how it works out for me.
How about you? Do you craft for others? If so, how has that worked out for you?
I’m sure they will love whatever you create. You are talented and they will appreciate the effort you made to create something special for them. Good luck xx
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I too am a selfish knitter. I have knit for other knitters, small items only, where I know they will be well received and cared for correctly. I think if I was you I would knit something I know the people would love and therefore appreciate.
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